Bedroom talk


So I am a Christian woman that is looking for a Christian husband for the future. I follow God’s word and try to live like Him everyday to my best ability, the only thing that I can’t figure out is my view of the bedroom for after marriage. Every time I start talking to a guy that loves the Lord as much as I do and I could see myself marrying, I get scared that he’s going to get freaked out that I love kinky stuff. With the new fifty shades movies being so popular, my church has talked about how wrong it is to do all of that stuff. In my mind I believe that if you abide by the “not sex before marriage rule” and the “don’t worship other idols”, then it shouldn’t matter how we love each other in the bedroom. But being able to find someone who loves the Lord and isn’t afraid to get kinky is like trying to find a needle in a hay stack. I just want to hear y’alls opinion on this.