Preeclampsia mommies!!!

Ok ladies I have a couple questions. I went to the doctor today and my BP was high 140/80 so the nurse waited a bit and took it again but it was still high 130/77. I asked the doctor about it and she kind of shrugged it off but took it again 130/60. I’ve never had issues with my BP being over 110/60. What symptoms were you having when you found out you had preeclampsia? Would your BP always run high or would it just spike at times? I’m just looking for answers to help calm my nerves.