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Hello there, I need some advice. Its a long story but please help me I'm out of ideas. I'm 19 years old, graduated from high school a year ago, and live with my bf and my mother. I didnt go to college because my last year of highschool was hectic and alot of stuff happened. My dad died from a cancer he had been fighting since i was 12, i suffered from depression, and an eating disorder, which led to me being sick all the time, I got mono. Anyways this all was happening right around the time i was supposed to get everything for college planned and done but i didnt get to because of how much was happening. So since then, as i mentioned earlier, i live with my mom and bf. I've been looking for a job, still haven't found one. And the situation of me living with my mom and bf has been extremely miserable. My mothers about to lose everything, house, car , etc and that will leave me with no where to live. so how do i get out of this and find a way to start a new beginning?