Is it wrong not to want to send nudes to your boyfriend after 6months-1 year of dating?

Question

I started dating this guy who says he is inlove with me for a month now. Last night he wanted me to send nudes, and it’s not that I don’t trust him I just don’t want to send nudes to anyone. He told me that I would be comfortable by 6 months, and I told him no I wouldn’t be comfortable ever. He then continued to tell me that not trusting him, and not sending nudes would be an insult to our relationship.

Accepted Answer

If you don’t want to send nudes because you’re not comfortable, then don’t do it. He can’t make you send them.

Answer

You don’t EVER have to do something you aren’t comfortable with! Not to mention, nudes aren’t required in a relationship and it isn’t about “trust”. This little boy is just thirsty and trying to pressure you into something that is 1) out of your comfort zone and 2) illegal! 
Girl, you need to slap this boy into shape or tell him to hit the road🤷🏼‍♀️ he ain’t the one if he’s trying stuff like this!

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Nudes aren’t for everyone, if he keeps pressuring you leave. That’s a red flag

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If you dont want to do it then don’t do it 
If he can’t handle that then you need to find a new boyfriend

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I MEANT TO PRESS NO AND ACCIDENTALLY PICKED YES

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i accidentally tapped yes when I meant no! 🤦 Nudes are not a thing for sharing if you are uncomfortable. Hell, I doubt I'll ever send one.

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You should NEVER be pressured into doing something you aren’t comfortable with. You should not be “expected” to do ANYTHING you are uncomfortable with, no matter how long you’ve had to become comfortable with the idea. Your body, your choice. It’s disgusting how these little boys are so ignorant because girls don’t want to show them parts of their bodies because it makes them uncomfortable. You are not wrong or weird or selfish or anything of the sort.

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You send nudes when you ready and when you want to. It not nobody’s business whenever you wanna or don’t

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I agree that it’s a red flag if he keeps disrespecting your choices. It’s important that you know it’s YOUR body, therefore YOUR decisions. It is completely okay to not want to share nudes and there is nothing wrong with that, your bf should learn to have some respect! I think you should put him in his place and tell him that his attitude is an insult to you and your body.

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^I agree , if you don’t feel comfortable then don’t, if someone is pressuring you to do something you don’t feel comfortable doing , stand your ground let them know that’s it’s your body your rules.

Is it wrong not to want to send nudes to your boyfriend after 6months-1 year of dating?

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