baby shower mess

I feel so uncomfortable having this baby shower. first off, someone is supposed to throw it for you. Well I got offered by family and then it became that I and the dad are now throwing it. Spending unnecessary money for ppl who may or may not show. it’s sad and annoying. shows how some ppl are truly unreliable in the fact that I’m now dealing with the hassle of putting this whole thing together when all I wanted to do in the first place was buy the essentials and more needed for my baby.🤦🏾‍♀️