Will I ever feel sexy?

Question

I currently weigh 280lbs. I’ve been trying to lose weight for years, and although I keep telling myself it’s all purely for health reasons, I know that deep down it’s because I don’t feel comfortable or attractive they way I am.. Don’t get me wrong, there are tons of gorgeous curvy ladies out there, I just don’t feel like one of them. And I feel like this is what’s keeping me from losing the weight. This insecurity I have, this fear that no matter what I will never feel sexy. Now I feel like a big blob of fat, but if I lose the weight, being as big as I currently am, will I just end up feeling like a flabby bunch of loose skin? Will anything ever be enough for me to accept myself? 
I don’t know... thanks if you read this rambley rant. Can anyone relate?

Answer

I went from 255 to 135 at one point. an yes!!! after I got to 200 I was like 'oooo I gotta keep going!!' I was fine af. lol then my newly found confidence got me a man an I had 2 kids 13 months apart an he loves me just the way I am so been having trouble finding the motivation to do it again. but I will say recently i tried the keto diet an dropped 10lbs in a week. I also did a 30day challenge with it though. but it works!! I'm now sitting steady at 200lbs an pretty happy. baby steps girl make a goal for 10 then step to 20

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I used to weight 280, but then I dropped 80 pounds, and oh girl was I fine. I looked like Fat Albert in my opinion when I was 280. You will not look like loose skin if you drop weight. I bet you're beautiful now, but you will be beyond sexy, too, if you choose to lose weight. Don't be scared you'll look bad. You won't.

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I'm there.as a teen i was 160 lbs, when I met my husband I was 220 lbs, I was 310 lbs 3 years ago, a month a go i was 244 lbs, and then i gaind some back and im 252 lbs now .....have completely lost the motivation to excersize and watch what I eat(when I do eat) I'm not really an eater to begin with, I eat 1 or 2 times a day, but I drink a lot of energy drinks and soda.im an exhausted mother of a 20 mo old and 4 mo old and also take care of my handicapped mother and handicapped 2 brothers.at the end of the day I'm so tired there feels like there's no point. I already see some extra skin....I feel ugly and like no matter what I do I'll never have the body I dream of, so why tire myself out more, and I'm the only one in the house who wanted to eat healthy, so junk is everywhere. I went from being insecure about being fat, to being insecure about being fat disproportionately, and saging. and I feel awful because I hate my body so much that it effects my husband and i in our sex life. I don't feel sexy, or beautiful, and for some reason I just feel worse when he complements me or touches me.

Will I ever feel sexy?

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