Question

So me and my MIL have NEVER gotten along. She’s been extremely disrespectful to me, has said racial slurs around me, got super pissed that I’m having her son’s baby, has said and done the meanest shit to me. So I told my husband that the baby isn’t allowed there and I don’t want her to hold my baby. And he gets so upset and says that it’s his kid too and that he wants his mom to be around the baby too. I don’t want it at all. Is anyone going through this?