I need advise girls.

Hi there, I just broke up with my boyfriend of 8 months. He’s my first real serious boyfriend so I know this is kinda pointless, but lately I just felt like I drifted away from him, and I felt out of love with him. I still and will always love him, but I don’t feel /in/ love if that makes sense.

I’m going to be moving to Louisville in January to go to flight school, and I won’t have any time for anything, and I don’t want to blow my money the loan was $140,000.

I decided to let him go, and he didn’t expect it, which is why I feel bad, but I didn’t want to lead him on anymore. I didn’t feel like this relationship was fair to him.

I’m friends with all his family on Facebook, so I’m not sure what to do with that right now

I told him to give me a year to let me finish flight school, and figure out what I want. Because I don’t know where I’ll be in a year.

He’s so devastated which breaks my heart as well.

Do you ladies think I did the right thing? What should I do?