my bfs asking me why I'm not having a baby shower

Teja

I really don't want one. He's never mentioned it before. I just told him about my Co worker asking if I'm having a baby shower and he asked why I'm not having one. The truth is I'm loving that not many people know I'm pregnant. I love my family dearly but I know what will come once they know and my friends are pretty much non- existent. I wanted to have more of a 'sip and see' once baby is here so everyone can come at once. What are your thoughts?