What turns your s/o on?

My boyfriend is nine years my senior, in his 30s while I’m in my mid 20s - so his drive isn’t near where mine is.

Being in my most active years, hormonally/sexually speaking, while he’s a bit past his, I struggle with turning him on and often find myself getting frustrated because I’m always ready to go and he rarely is.

(At times I can’t help but think it may be me, not being attractive or good enough to get him going.)

I’m curious, what turns your significant others on - certain areas being touched, certain things you say or do?

I want to also say that I completely respect the fact that he does not want sex as much as I do and have no problem with it. I love him very much but just want some ideas from other ladies to help him get in the mood at times. Apart from blatantly telling him I’m horny...not romantic.

We’ve also talked openly about the situation and how to handle it when it comes about - still, the more ideas the merrier. ❤️

P.s. besides covering my body in whipped cream...too much cleanup.