I’m a nagging wife 🙁

Why does becomming a mother change so many women into nagging, annoying wives? Since becoming pregnant and having my daughter in April, I get so annoyed by everything my husband does. Nothing he does is good enough. What can I do to get out of this cycle? How do yall keep things fun with your husbands so that he looks at you as the woman he married and not just his baby’s nagging mother?