The controlling husband

So I just had a talk with my husband that I’m turning 23 this year and stuff is gonna change in the marriage...I’ve been with him since I was 18. I put school on hold to take care of my son. He has a degree and everything and now I’m 22 still at home no job or nothing because he claims he don’t want his wife working but I believe it’s for control reason.cause if I ask for money it’s no...we have 3 cars and I can only use it to go up the block and back. Now tonight as I speak to you guys I’m suppose to be meeting my mom for a dinner date I’m getting ready to leave he asks me for the keys to the car... I said why he said am I crazy I’m not taking his car out and now I have to get on the train to meet my mother...so I canceled the date with my mom cause I know she’s gonna ask questions about he car and I really don’t wamna bring her in it...so I told him as god as my witness I’m going back to school or get a job...his response is ok enjoy ya life...I said what does that mean ? He goes let me know when u ready to do either so I can find me someone else smh