So I just got back from a cruise with my BF and all my family and friends. I noticed my bf leaving unannounced at random times and not being able to find him on the giant ship. I was drinking and was over thinking that he was going to be meeting up with a girl or something but I knew I was overthinking. Today I snooped on his phone (I know pathetic) and saw he texted his friend telling him about “the hot chick on the ship and how he would try and find her and how he wanted to make small talk with her in case me and him didn’t work out” he has been searching for her on social media with no luck. I am just at a loss for words. I confronted him and he told me how mad he was that I snooped and when I asked him about the girl he denied before he found out that I knew he wanted to talk to her. He is saying he just thought she was attractive and would never act on anything, but isn’t wanting to talk to her acting on it?!? I just don’t know what to do.. we have been together 3 years and need some advice 😕