Am i overthinking and it’s just jokes or is my boyfriend beginning to be abusive

Update

Thank you all for your input seeing as he is from a house full of boys idk i guess i thought that’s just the way he plays and he was my first relationship it didn’t feel right but i thought i was just over reacting because he would say everything was a joke or I’m playing I’m going to distance myself from him so he does not get mad at me.

My boyfriend will compliment me say I’m beautiful and cute but he will introduce me to his friends and say ain’t she ugly. I’ve asked him to stop but he won’t. He also will tell me i have a very small butt i think it’s average and others strangers and all tell me it’s pretty big for my size. He will accuse me of cheating making smart remarks about me on my phone or people coming to hug me with a church hug. He will call me pussy and say i look old but everyone that has spoken to me will say i look about 16 when I’m actually 22. he also will pin me down when we are play fighting or he is drunk when he does it when he is drunk it’s like he going to force himself on me but he doesn’t he’ll just have me pent under him. He has on multiple occasions covered my face with his hands and all his strength to smother me but he will however say he is just playing or it’s a joke and i kinda believe him because he is from a house full of boys so i assume that’s how he is used to playing so i don’t know if I’m overthinking it or not.