Help me switch it up??

Question

My daddy is dominate, but also likes to be dominated as well. I have spoken to a few people on here who have helpfully pointed out that I could be a brat and dominate him, and at the same time he would still be my daddy. Any advice on how to do so? I’m so stuck!

Answer

be demanding! tell him you wanna be like daddy, or that you wanna play daddy. "I wanna be like daddy" and act the way he does. Straddle him, grind on him or palm him ask him.who his daddy parts belong to. (if be doesn't say you, tease him more and ask again until.he says yes) stuff like that

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I think the two of you need to have some long and 100% open conversation with each other. I worry that if you go the route of topping from the bottom, you may mess up the parts of your relationship that are working already. (Also, as a brat, I take offence to the concept that brats "top from the bottom". We are playful, mischievous, and snarky...*not* trying to dominate our partners. Sorry for the vent, it's a sore spot for me.)

Answer

Find out what specifically he wants to experience. Discuss what kind of scenes he wants to experience and see if the two of you can strike a compromise? If you are open to the scenes he wants to try, you can still be a submissive that Tops. Hell, even make it part of the dynamic as an assignment that he will "grade". On the other hand, if you don't feel comfortable in the roles he wants you to play, then maybe you can explore being little together as a mutual play date? Or join a little group together and make friends with other couples. Maybe y'all will make friends with some who wouldn't mind doing a scene with you both as Littles? If he isn't a little, then there are a lot of groups devoted to other stuff which are filled with amazing and wonderful future friends from whom to learn. In short: Have fun, be open with your limits, and don't be scared to make friends! <3

Help me switch it up??

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