i’ve never really fingered myself..

i’ve never used a tampon or had sex. i’m 17.

i think i’m a little open down there (i can tell) because of an accident this one time (i don’t really wanna get into lol) but i massage my clit for stimulation.

tips on how to safely, comfortably, finger myself? i want to prepare for having sex, i’m really nervous if something goes wrong but i feel confident at the same time. haha