I want him to make me cum, lol tips? Pls read

So no guy has ever made me cum and I’ve recently found a partner that I rly want tp make me cum (as does he). It just feels like no one can make me cum but me? I could communicate what to do, put his fingers in the right place, etc. but it never works, even with eating out.

I’ve never cum during sex either, like it all feels good but not even close to cumming. Any tips? other than communication preferably bc I’ve tried that lol im trying to be patient but I’m sick of not cumming when all my partners do