š«Introvert affecting relationship...š

Hi, just need some advice on a small problem.
Iāve established that Iām a āintrovertedā human being, itās not so much shy anymore as it is now.. the issue of me feeling uncomfortable in unfamiliar surroundings.
This ties back into my relationship because, Itās bad enough it took three years to come out my shell to open up to him. Now, as we are having several problems with our relationship.. Iām starting to form that bubble back around me to protect myself from getting hurt.
But the main thing is, I canāt take anyone invading my space.. his family, my family.. no one, I instantly grow uncomfortable.
But yeah.. I just wanna be able to not freak out as much as Iāve been lately!!!
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