am i in the wrong?

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my girlfriend and I live together. she gets up early to make her and our kid breakfast, I asked did you make me anything she replied no. I'm not your mom. I can understand if she had to make something special for me (she doesn't) but she's already cooking. am I wrong for thinking she could just cook for one more.

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I agree with you. She’s already cooking. Why wouldn’t she fixing enough for you?!?

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Maybe she will appreciate if you cook for yourself, and for her and her daughter

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Is she just supposed to assume you’re hungry? My husband and I always ask each other first before we cook for each other. Otherwise it’s just wasted effort. Maybe next time, ask her if she would mind making you something instead of assuming she will and getting mad when she doesn’t.

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yes it would be nice of her to make you something! But why are you assuming she needs to make it for you. ... Dont feel left out she has alot on her hands.

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Personally, it sounds like she might be holding onto some resentment. You couldve done something that she saw as selfish so she responded in this way. Try to talk to her about it. Also realize that just expecting her to do things for you does come from a place of entitlement. Sure she could make you breakfast but she also doesnt have to. Dont look at this as a matter of who was right or wrong. Thats the same immature BS that likely got you to this situation. Take this as a moment to try to improve the communication between you.
There was a post not too long ago where a womans husband gave her a standoffish response about not giving her an orgasm after he stopped their sex session after he came. She responded by not making him breakfast as a joke to show him what being rude and selfish gets you. 
At the end of the day, its breakfast, not the end of the world. Figure out what's wrong and work together to fix it and improve both of your situations.

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I think she should at least offer.

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Ehh I see it both ways. She’s already cooking so why not just cook for one more? But then again if it’s and everyday thing and you can NEVER do it yourself, you’re damn right I’m not your mom. Make your own food

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From a moms prospective I would just like to say as a mom sometimes it feel like everything falls on us. From kids and husbands to jobs and errands not including the house and cooking. So more often than not it seems a little irritating when you’re cooking and people just expect you to have done something instead of asking politely or coming about it another way. I’m not saying she shouldn’t have made everyone breakfast but you can’t come into a situation expecting something and acting entitled just because she happened to cook. 🤷🏻‍♀️ because that will obviously get you nowhere.

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maybe u should marry her so she'd have no choice but to feed u.

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If this was me- I’d ask my SO if he wanted anything to eat. I wouldn’t just make us something and leave him out, that’s rude. My opinion.
So not necessarily make you something unless she’s being spontaneous but the least she can do is ask if you’d like something. Vice versa.

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