Advice for female virgins

I am 18 and I recently lost my virginity this post isn't about the age that I lost it. I am making a post to tell any other girls who are virgins that having sex with a condom isn't as bad as it sounds from other people... I have always heard that, "it hurts less without one..." "feels better without one" yes it does hurt losing your virginity but if using a condom is the only way to not have kids if youre not ready... you should do it. Do not rely on him that he's going to "pull out" even if he does precum might happen!!!