Relationship problems

Hello ladies ... I got this friend of mines who’s been living with her boyfriend for a couple of months now .. & I just came to find out that she literally pays all the bills by her self 😩😩😩🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️.. her boyfriend is always hanging out after work comes home drunk .. and um I asked her if he don’t help ? She’s like I don’t like to ask I like to just pay things my self .. now question is do you guys would rather a man help you ? Or would you rather handle it by your self ?