Switch?

Sooo I am in my first relationship ever(as is she) and I always thought I was strictly submissive until I met the partner I am with now who taught me that I am a switch instead. She( yes we’re lesbians lol) is pretty submissive(and a little!) and I love being in control and being the dominant one but sometimes I’m curious about exploring my submissive side but don’t really know how to do so since she is submissive as well. Any advice? I’ve been trying to think of little things that she could do or say when we’re having sex or whatever that may fulfill that submissive side of me a little. Such putting her hand on my throat when I’m Cumming or making me maintain eye contact with her through the whole thing, things like that. Are there any other little things she could do I guess considering she’s not really dominant?? TIA