i don't know how to explain this ...

it's really complicated back in December I remember I cut myself with a razor on accident down in my lady areas and me and my boyfriend had intercourse the following evening along with the days leading up to it I started out as a tear and I was kind a used to those but ones that healed overnight this one didn't go away and then it turned into this big swollen mess with sores overtime and pus coming out of them sorry that's gross but when I went to the doctor I got treated but they said that I had a type of herpes not one that is contagious unless he were to do something with me while I had open sores which I don't know why anyone would do that anyway but I never really got information on how to prevent it and maybe how it really got caused they didn't say it was sexually transmitted they just kind of explain that sex could've been the cause for it to flare up the way it did so basically I'm just asking if anybody else has this it's really weird because the herpes everyone knows are the ones that are contagious no matter what but I do not have that and I just realize that I'm getting it again except this time I'm going to the doctors before it gets really bad because last time I could not even walk and I got a fever on top of it which i think said is a sign of herpes but I'm just really confused because I don't want to have it but it's not contagious so what the fuck guys