Over This

My kids dad & I are currently in a relationship I have a 4 year old & 5 weeks pregnant with our 2nd child..Since I have found out and he haven't attend no dr appt nor ER visit I had on yesterday morning..I feel he isn't supporting..He can be abuses & controlling at times..I feel like it really has ran it's course and things are definitely over...He trys to put stress on me also make me feel ugly and down about myself. I'm sick of it