Would you be mad?

So this weekend I have to go on a bachelorette trip for my cousin, and this was planned a long time now, I’ve already payed my portion of the cabin. I don’t really want to go- and I will be the only mom going on this trip, they didn’t give me a choice otherwise I wouldn’t be going. But it should be pretty low key and it is what it is.

Anyway, I thought my hubby was staying home with our toddler but this morning he informed me that the plan changed, and the two of them will be going to an exotic animals petting zoo with his dad and nephew/ niece. (I have been wanting to take our son there forever!)

Afterward my hubby is driving the nephew and our son up to his brother’s house 2 hours away, staying the night. I should also mention that my husband’s family and I aren’t exactly the best of friends because they are completely absent in our son’s life unless we do all the work and coordinating to make it happen, but that’s another issue. So anyway I’m kinda pissed because 1. I’m missing out on our son’s first trip to the petting zoo. 2. He’s traveling without me to visit folks who never take the time to come see us and it makes me uneasy because I won’t be here to help keep an eye on our son.

How would you feel if it were you? I know I’m overreacting but I can’t not be pissed right now. I just need to calm down. 😠