Frustrated

Sorry for the long rant. I am truely over whelmed and have no one to talk to.

My in-laws are so bipolar. They don't respect my space or privacy. An my MIL throws a goddamn fit Everytime I want to go see my mom who lives an hour away. Mind you (unfortunately) we live in a three family home and I see my in-laws every day. We are constantly put down and the baby isn't even here yet and my in-laws are trying to take over. I have put my foot down MULTIPLE time but they do not respect my wishes. They feel so entitled to everything and are just big bullies. I can't stand this. My husband and I are trying to look for a house to get away but it's financial hard with this market. They feel every day I have to be with them and if I'm not I get the passive aggressive " oh only when you want something we are good enough for you to see us" bullshit. They go up to my apartment and bring my dog down stairs so I have to go in to see them. They open my mail (which is a federal crime) and they have no business to be doing so. I absolutely hate this. This is my first baby and it's supposed to be the happiest times yet it's a struggle to make it feel that way. I'm sitting here in tears writing this post. I have never been more frustrated with two people before. Why do they have to be like this? I just want to crawl in hole.