So today I’m 6 weeks pregnant YAY😍 my partner came home to tell me his brothers girlfriend is 8 weeks pregnant👀 I’m disappointed.. I’m happy for them but I’m mad at the same time😭 we were the last to know about it due to drama with my partners mother/step mother due to his brothers girlfriend stirring the pot, twisting my words and completely lying! No one has spoken to me in a month. This girl is 8 weeks pregnant, she’s known since July and was drinking at my birthday party in August, she still smokes and no one has batted an eyelid. When I was pregnant with our child that I lost due to a miscarriage my name was blackened because I hadn’t quit smoking immediately and cut down first via doctors orders. After an explosive argument with my own mum last year his step mum told me that myself and my daughter could stay with them as long as we wanted, this happened over the Christmas period so I had to wait until it was over to go to our council to declare us homeless so we could get a place of our own. His mum and step mum sat behind my back plotting to kick me and my daughter out on a Wednesday.. I was carrying their first grandchild at the time and lost the baby 3 days before the day they had planned to kick us out😭.. me and my partner have a place of our own. His brother and girlfriend don’t have a place together and his mother has now offered to give them her house if they don’t get one by the time she’s 8 months pregnant.

I’m feeling so petty and horrible for it but I feel like every time me and my partner have had news his brother and his girlfriend have gone out of their way to steal the limelight😭 examples being..

1. When we announced our pregnancy his brother was literally like scream crying with every person we told and saying “oh I’ve been crying all day” completely shifting focus onto himself.

2. A few months after we lost our baby while I was confiding in her about how heartbroken I still was and stuff his brothers girlfriend hit out with “oh I’ve come off the pill and we’re going to start trying for a baby”.. call me selfish but I felt so damn disrespected!

3. Due to a false accusation he was convicted of in his past my partner has a social worker who helps him out and checks up on him every 2 weeks, his brothers girlfriend works in social work but is more like a secretary.. she takes notes during meetings etc, absolutely NOT a social worker. She told us after announcing that they were going to try for a baby that we had not to try until next year when he stops seeing his social worker as our baby will have social work in its life until it’s 16 (this is as absolute lie as he had already spoken to his social worker about this and she assured him this would absolutely not happen)

Sorry for such a long post I just needed to get it out☹️ I feel like she is going out of her way to make sure she is the centre of attention and has already succeeded in turning my partners family against us (although they were pretty against me from the start but weren’t forward enough to tell me). Maybe I am just petty, but honestly I’ve just been through so much these last months I feel like everyone is against me😕