It doesnt matter

I see alot of people make it a point to say “ive only had 1 sexual partner” when telling theyre story. Let me say this it does not matter how many people you have been with that is not even the problem. So youre saying in order for you to get herpes you have to be screwing with multiple guys?? Im not understanding why people make it a POINT to say “ive only been with one guy” . I know women who have had over 30 partners and never contracted anything. As well as people who had 1 partner and got herpes. It doesnt matter if u are a virgin if you have sex with someone who has it youre going to get it! This is life and sex is risky. You never know what a person has and you cant tell what they have by looking at them or going by “well ive only been with 1 guy so i cant get anything. That 1 guy u slept with has slept with about 20 other women.