Orgasm

Hey guys I’m just curious, when my boyfriend has done oral or fingered me, it’s felt good and all but like not amazing. Like sometimes if he does it for a while Im kinda like alright now what?😂 because like I haven’t reached a climax. Even when I’ve attempted to ya know do it myself, I don’t feel any amazing pleasure. Like I don’t get it? How do you all do it? Is it bad that I haven’t? I’m just kinda a lil lost