Do you get upset when your SO is too tired for sex?

Question

My husband and I have been married for 10 years. When we first met My sex drive  was trough the roof for the first 4 years. After we had our daughter it kind of disappeared. Fast forward to 5 years later ..
I have my crazy sex drive back. Hubby is so flattered and happy about it, but being that he works about 70 hours a week. He does tend to fall asleep on me. I understand he’s tired, but I still get so pissed. No I don’t want to go
Masturbate either. I want THE D. anyone else as pouty as me when they can’t get laid 😩

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If I expect him to be understanding when I turn down sex, I sure as hell should show him the same courtesy.

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I would not want my husband to pressure me for sex or pout about it if I was working 70 hrs a week and needed to rest. I would expect him to be patient, be mature, and understand what I was going through. If it was happening for months on end I might talk to him about it but otherwise I would try to be respectful of his body. 
Good luck - I hope he’s able to set some time aside for you for even a quickie. Maybe talk to him about it

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Getting pissed about him denying sex is sooo toxic. What do you want to be the outcome of that? Him giving in because you’re being a brat? Then you would just be having sex with someone who isn’t even into it
To answer your question, no. I’ve never once gotten upset when my SO denied sex no matter the reason, and he’s never gotten upset either. Getting upset about a lack of consent is creepy

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Maybe pleasure him only one night after work as a reminder of what he’s missing. It’s likely he needs it as much as you do he’s just exhausted. Sometimes you don’t realize you need good lovin till you’re putting your pants back on.

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Also been with my husband ten years, two kids and I’m 19 weeks pregnant. My sex drive also took a hit after our first two children but the past weeks ive needed sex and lots of foreplay at least twice a day and he’s finding it hard to keep up with me as he also works 12 hour days on the buildings. There’s lots of times I’ve told him no before because i was so tired, so the table has turned. Just have to be understanding I guess 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Set his alarm 30 minutes earlier in the morning and ride the D before he works a full day as is too tired.

Do you get upset when your SO is too tired for sex?

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