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The hubs and I are going to our first fertility specialist consultation this month.  Anyone have question suggestions??
A little backstory... stopped taking birth control summer 2015,  we weren't really "trying" but were not "avoiding" pregnancy.  Fast forward a year, and I was about 6-8 months from graduating nursing school.  We started tracking my cycle more and trying more to get pregnant.  
It's now been about 2 years that we've officially been trying to get pregnant. I've seen my OBGYN, had ultrasounds, blood work etc. And everything seems to check out at this point.  The hubs just had his SA last month and it came back with low motility, but everything else within expected range. 
Encouraging stories would be ok too... so much anxiety about our infertility right now. 😥

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Honestly when I first went to my fertility specialist I was 100% honest with them about everything and everything that they were telling me was super overwhelming in a lot of ways so I didn't really catch all of it. We told them a lot of our personal stuff answered every question the best we could I just talked about all my previous pregnancies and losses. They usually give you a bunch of pamphlets paperwork that you can go over after you leave

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Your story sounds so much like mine! I was looking at all the different groups wondering which would be the best one to find a similar story so I can find out what happens next and hopefully get a success story.
My story is I came off birth control 2 years and 8 months ago, after lots of persuading to try for a baby my partner agreed. I have a son to a previous partner who is nearly 10 and my OH brings him up like his own. The love he has for him just makes my ovaries flutter! 
So we began trying, every symptom I felt I was buying pregnancy tests
"I feel nausea, must get a test"
"My boobs are sore, must get a test"
"All I want to eat is....., must get a test" 
I was clearly THAT desperate for a BFP I was funding half the pregnancy test companies! 
After a year we decided to go to the doctor, I'm type 1 diabetic so was unsure if that may have been a problem.
We were waiting ages for a referral, we then moved his doctors to my surgery and he was sent for  a SA.
This is the part I hadn't planned for. It came back zero, Azoospermia and my heart fell like a lead balloon. My OH took it badly and was very upset but we just agreed to go forward with what the doctors were suggesting and hopefully get some answers.
So up to now he's had maybe 3 SA which have all come back the same, however the last one we sent off was after him taking some fertility supplements and having made some adjustments to his lifestyle so hoping they might encourage a positive change. He's had an ultrasound to check for blockages and all was clear and I have also had an ultrasound and everything was clear. We have been told we will get the results back from his last SA and my ultrasound in 6-8 weeks.
Sorry for the lengthy message just hoping to find someone in a similar position to me, granted it's not a favoured position to be in but this is where we are and were going to have to go with it.
Thanks Sam.

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