So my husband and I have attended two different churches since we've been together and we dont agree on which one we should attend full time. Right now we are at the church he grew up in, got baptized and has been a member of since he was born pretty much. He stopped going around the age of 12 though and didn't reappear until a few months ago so it's been a good while. We first tried a pretty large church that has a live band singing worship music, we get to dance and sing and they have all types of cool event's and I felt very joyful going there though we didn't get to try much of the classes or anything I just had a very good feeling there. My husband says it wasn't very personable though we did get invited to bible studies and little group meetings, we just didn't get the chance to attend them yet. The church we are currently attending is very tight knit and only sings out of the hymnal book and no that's not awful and that's not the issue it's just the feeling there and this sounds bad but I feel judged there and not comfortable. My husband is now teaching his mentor and some kids from the church mma stuff and we are apart of a couple classes and of course I'm more than happy to see my husband getting more envoled but I just can't see myself being there long term. I talked to my husband about it and he says its not about how welcome or comfortable you feel or the vibe and I'm like yeah it is lol .... has anyoneelse been in this situation? what should I do? I know I should always follow my husband but I'm not on the same page as him this time.. any advice? any would help, and thank you in advance. ps. just to mention, I think the pastor's at both churches are equally as awesome and informative I just can't seem to "fit in" with the people at this church. just thought I'd add that in there.