HIV???

I was talking to a guy, T... We never had sex but he ate me out one time and I blew him. Chances of contracting HIV are low through oral unless you have mouth sores, but I do.. I’m worried.

I gave him a blow job 2 weeks and a day ago.

First I just felt not right. I was expecting to just have a bad couple of days but I still feel bad.

First I noticed a sore swollen throat. It hurt to swallow, but not super bad, just a little bit.

I’ve had fatigue, loss of appetite, muscle aches, joint pain, lower back pain, cramps, nausea, diarrhea almost daily.

Then I noticed swollen lymph nodes in my armpits, especially my right. That’s when I looked it up and saw hiv as one of the possibilities.

T and I stopped talking. He broke up with me because I wouldn’t have sex with him. After we stopped talking, a few things came out like that he used to use Craigslist to hook up with women. I also think he might have a sex addiction. He also doesn’t like condoms.

I looked up how I could get tested, but it said I can’t get tested until 45 days after first contact. Is there anything I can do in the meantime??