How would you feel?

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I might be overreacting, or not... honestly i don’t know how to feel .... uncomfortable i guess. 
Hubby and i been trying to conceive for 2 years now... as we was watching hin a movie we stared having a conversation about how it would be if we had a baby etc etc then he goes.... “not to bring old wounds back, but maybe we can try having sex on ur period, thats how i had my son” 
I didn’t say anything to him.... but it definitely got me feeling some type of way... like, i don’t wanna hear about ur sex life with someone else.... 
Should i say something to him??? Or just move on ? Lol.... im having a fight in my head 🤯🤯🤯
*********** thank you all for the comments, i was driving myself crazyy... lol i really dont have any friends to ask advice or anything . Its good to hear “chill down its okay” haha

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I’m not really sure why you would get upset about that

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I don’t really see the issue here. He was obviously talking about it for the sake of trying to conceive with you... I am very open about my sex life and like hearing about what my partners have done/tried/liked so nothing like that would bother me personally but honestly, even to the point where you don’t like hearing about anything in his sexual past... what he said was perfectly okay.

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He wasn’t trying to give you details on his past sex life. He was simply trying to suggest something he thinks would help. He’s a man he prob doesn’t know how female bodies work. There’s no reason to be upset

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It was crass of him to say such.. but to be honest I am thinking he was just trying to help and as a man hasn’t got quite the filter that women sometimes need..
Maybe tell him that the comment upset you, but leave it at that.. unless you know absolutely for sure that he was trying to be an ass- I would let it be.
Baby making is hard on all..

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I mean he’s just trying to be helpful when we were trying my husband said that he doesn’t remember things being this hard when trying to conceive his daughter and after we got pregnant he didn’t remember his ex wife having morning sickness or anything

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just move on. it's not like his sex life before you was a secret and he didn't really go into detail.

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Just remind him that not every woman gets pregnant during their period. You probably don’t ovulate right after your period ? He’s insensitive for making that comment but maybe he just said it because it worked the first time but that’s inly because she probably had a short cycle

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