What should I do

Hey soo I was planning a home birth with this baby.. but some medical issues have been brought up and now I'm being monitored high risk..

anyways.. I will be induced early ( not sure when yet they are playing it by ear anywhere from 36-38 weeks )

but since I can't have my peaceful home birth ...

i DONT want my mom there because she is a bit childish sometimes and would make it WAY more stressful..

ive been lucky with two quick labors 2hour and 4 hours from start of induction to the time they were born.. and she didn't make it either time because she thought it would be much much longer obviously..

so this time i don't even want to tell her about the induction date.. I actually want to surprise her with the baby... like show up at her house after checking myself out early ( depending on how baby is doing )

but I fear her being very mad..

or hurt..

even though I would be showing up with the baby to surprise her I would be afraid she would feel upset and I don't want to hurt her feelings...

any help?