Would you date someone with a bitter babymama?

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I met this guy and as soon as I posted him on sc as friendssss his baby’s mother messaged me asking me all these questions, he tells me he’s not with her and to block her but my friends tell me he’s probably hiding something and still messes around with her.. I would like to get to know him but I would not want to be with someone if his babymama is always messaging me
Update: Hi I should probably add what she told me... she sent me a long msg stating that she was just with him the night before I went out with him, that this is not the first time he does this to her and that he’s not a really good guy because he always treated her like shit and always cheated on her... she also attached a couple recent pictures of him in his house.. 
He tells me he wants nothing to do with her, that he doesn’t love her and she has always been bitter.. yeah this is too much drama but not sure if I should believe him or her, he tells me to give him a chance but I wouldn’t want to be with someone that’s always gonna go back to their ex

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I wouldn’t date anyone with a “baby mama” 
Especially if it started out like this. He’s either lying and still with her or she’s crazy. I wouldn’t stick around to find out which one

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Guaranteed they still fuck wit each other 💀 this is your opportunity to dip the fuck out

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My husband has a bitter baby momma. We were “talking” for about 4 months before we made it official. I posted our photo together on FB and she found me and started sending me nasty messages suggesting that he was an absent father and if he had time for a relationship, then he should have time for his daughter. 4 years later, she is still as bitter as she was when she tried to introduce herself to me. We are now married since May and have a 6 month old son together. I am currently pregnant again roughly 7 weeks along and she is still a problem. He would tell me the same and I was skeptical at first, hints why it took so long to finally agree to be official. I’d say, from experience, get to know him and trust him and his word until proven otherwise. Just don’t get too attached too soon. In the end, he loves his daughter and always makes the effort including paying over $800/mo in child support. She is the one who never replies or answers and always denies his right to see her.

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No I wouldn’t wanna get in the middle of a family it would just be to much drama

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Run!

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Is she "bitter" or just telling you the truth? And your new manchild is trying to spin it like she's crazy bc he's a cheating asshole and wants to have sex with you.

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I would get to know him dispite what she says. My SO baby momma is butter and jealous that I am with his son's father. He also is the one who has custody of their said son, but she makes no effort to ask or see or plan to see her son, I'm a SAHM with the boy, he has yet to say mom to me as the actual meaning than just a word. He's 2. 
Been with my SO for almost a year, at 2months she really tried to get under my skin, and he wanted her back to be a family for their son, he made a mistake, and told her 24/7 that he should of never left me, I forgave him. 
We got back together and she is still bitter about us together. She has sent messages about them having sex without anyone knowing, that her other son and their son won't know lol 😂
We every fight and with the latest he had messaged her and after we figured out that we aren't leaving each other and going to work on things, she got bitter about it, because even if she says she doesn't want him, she does.
You just have to be the bigger person and keep moving forward

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My SO has a bitter baby momma but there wasn’t much he could’ve done about it. We’ve been together four years (I’ve never even suspected he was cheating or lying to me) and she’s still the same bitter woman she’s always been. Since she found out we were dating she’s been tryna break us up and tell me things about him like he was still seeing her when he was dating me but I know he was with me every night and we weren’t even official. She’s lied about conversations they’ve had. She’s tried to get him to cheat on me, even telling him “I won’t tell Lisa, I hate that bitch” and “Just fucking, no kissing no ass slapping, strictly fucking” and “can we just fuck”?  I have all the text messages from her and it’s still amazing to me how DESPERATE a baby momma can be. A man can straight up tell her NO and she will continue to harass him. I probably shouldn’t limit this to just baby mommas. 
Yes men can be assholes too, but baby mommas can be innocent or they can be some nasty vindictive bitches and a man’s worse nightmare.

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Nope! Too much stress and drama.

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Absolutely not. That sounds like a mess to get involved with. That doesn’t mean you can’t be friends with him but a romantic relationship would be out of the question for me until that got sorted out.

Would you date someone with a bitter babymama?

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