Labor questions

Does anyone else get frustrated when asking questions about labor progression because there’s always 4-6 people saying they’ve had whatever it is happen to them for YEARS and they still haven’t given birth? 🙄lol I get that it’s their experience but it’s like, “hey I’m in prodromal labor and I’m 3cm and 40 weeks anyone have this experience that went into labor SOON after?” And 90% of the answers explain months worth of prodromal contracts, one month of 8cm dilated and 90% effaced that went no where lmao (clearly an exaggeration lol). Where are all of the women at who have labor signs and have actually given birth lol? Does anyone give birth?