What the hell do I do

I got upset that he forgot about our anniversary, but just a little. It’s not even our real anniversary but we missed our actual one because we don’t know when the actual day is. It’s been well over a year now but I wanted to celebrate a little anyways. Aaand he forgot, I got sassy about it, nothing serious honestly, and today he just hasn’t talked to me.

Knew I wouldn’t see him today but we always talk on the phone once or twice to check in or maybe text a little. Nope. It feels like such a kick in the heart right now because we don’t even have sexy anymore for some reason, which has plummeted my confidence, he goes our more and doesn’t communicate as well anymore, and all of my emotions have been heightened lately for whatever reason, lots of stress.

However, he can be so sweet and will show obviously that he cares about me. And then it just shuts off. Like I said before we’ve been together over a year, haven’t said we love each other, which is another thing that kills my confidence, we don’t even have sex anymore, and basically I just cry all the time now lol. Please help y’all I just really don’t know what to do, I’ve been doing what I can to try to fix this stuff but it just doesn’t work. He’s been so preoccupied with his job and buying all this crap for himself and I feel like an after thought a lot. HELP