Labor

i know it’s early but i like to be organized so my fiancé brought up who would be in the room with me, i told him of course he would, my mom and sister or his sister. he asked where would his mom be and i said outside of the delivery room so he’s upset. his mom has dogged my name and dragged it through the dirt. she makes up rumors and tells false stories about saying i think i’m better than everyone ( i say hi to her and that’s it because i’m shy and when we were building a mother/ daughter in law bond i found out how fake she is) the first time i got pregnant she said it was my fault and blamed it on me. she also said i should just get an abortion she stressed me out so bad. i think i have the right to not want her in there. he keeps saying he’s gonna give her his spot like a damn dummy. LIKE NO I DONT WANT HER IN THERE AT ALL. she can be outside of the delivery. She’s so messy. her other son just had a baby and she compared the two granddaughters saying nobody’s gonna want the other because she’s bald headed like i don’t like that negativity. i ended up saying ok no one will be in there except me and you because i don’t want to hear about it. he knows she fake and messy. i forgive her but i don’t like being around bad vibes and negative people. at this point i’ll just like for my mom and no one else to be in there