I love myself and working on myself

But some guys have the nerve to tel me I have no ass or no titties... and it makes me so insecure sometimes cuz i feel like that’s all what guys want is a BIG BUTT AND HUGE TITS. I don’t have that. I do eat a lot and work out now.. I know Im beautiful and anybody would be lucky to have me but sometimes I feel like I need an ass for this guys. :/ my ex told me he didn’t. Want to be with me cuz I didn’t have a butt but he did eat me out and always smacked it so idk why he would say that