How to make him appreciate me

So my bf and I have been dating for 3.5 years and we are both in our early 20s. Recently I’ve gotten this feeling in me that I have been putting more into the relationship than him. I think he takes me for granted because I’m the one who pays for most dates, plans the outings, etc. There is nothing wrong with that, but I just want to feel appreciated from time to time. Any suggestions for what I could do on my side?