Who has to do this?

So I want to know how many married women have to beg their husband for sex? Or even attention. So we’ve only been married for almost 2 years and only have sex at least 3-4 times a month. And that’s if I’m lucky. He works most everyday and comes home tired so I understand sometimes when he just wants to rest a bit. Idk what to do.. maybe I’m overreacting.. I just want to know if it’s just me.