Tit for tat! Anyone else’s boyfriend be like this?

So today my boyfriend wanted a blow job and he was like well I’m going to the storage for you and this other errand, I’m like really tit for tat that’s the kind of relationship you want cuz I don’t.. anyone else’s man say this or act like this when and what did you do? He wasent like that before. He’s a grown successful man in he’s 40’s we have been together 10 months.

Maybe he didn’t mean it but dosent feel appreciated but he does like that getting head and it came out wrong? Should I be having a conversation and bring it up again? Is this a huge deal I need to communicate with him?