If a couple is on the verge of divorce, and your spouse is ignoring you, but is now sick with something & won't go to the doctor is that on me?

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I understand the nice thing would be to cater to him. But when he's not sick he's already very moody. Yesterday I told him I was going to make soup for him. He said never mind.  Please help me out here ladies.

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Let him take care of his damn self!!!

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He's a grown man. He can take care of himself. Would he be waiting on you hand and foot if you were sick right now? Would he be sweet and loving and patient? If he's being a dickhead and didn't even want your soup, then just go about your business and let him be a big cry baby. He ain't dyin.

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If you guys are on the verge of divorce and don’t want it to end that way, that means sometimes being the bigger person. Aside from taking straight up abuse, him having an attitude shouldn’t deter you from treating him the best you can. Sometimes one side has to pull harder to approximate what the relationship should be like. Assuming he hasn’t cheated, bridging the gap between the two of you— especially with benevolence— can only help your marriage survive. Sure, you can let it wither and accept his cold shoulder, but you could also take the high road and look out for him even when he’s not capable of looking out for you both. That’s how mature relationships work.

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If a couple is on the verge of divorce, and your spouse is ignoring you, but is now sick with something & won't go to the doctor is that on me?

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