Relationship Problems after PCSing

I’m so pissed off right now and I guess I just want some insight from other military spouces/SO. My bf is Coast Guard, stationed in Illinois, asked me to come move in with him to progress our relationship and I took the plunge (again) and packed what I could in my car and drove up from Louisiana. After five days I had an amazing interview that went well and was offered a position with the company on the spot. He was happy that day that I found a job but the job didn’t start immediately, I had to submit a background check and a drug screening and was told it could take up to a week for them to acquire the results. My bf is unsatisfied with my initiative and says I’m being lazy because I did the drug screening on day two and not day one and that I’m unconcerned with working as quickly as I can. I feel like that is ridiculous. The last time that I moved in with him I had a job before even showing up and I moved on a Sunday and started work on Monday. I have never had a problem with initiative. He says he could get a job in a day if he had to. I was wondering how long does it takes for other SO to relocate and begin working in your experiences? What is expected of you and how you handle the pressure and properly convey how you feel about the situation to your spouse? Right now I feel so unsupported and baffled. Has anyone ever experienced this?