What are the chances of every girl who's know or been with this guy says he's done terrible things is lying

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Almost every female from the last couple of years who has known or been with him says he's a terrible guy and has abused them or their family member or has denied and lied. All these females knew him from couple years ago and they all seem to say terrible things.
 There's three exs who I haven't really heard from or talked to but they always follow his new profiles when he creates a new one. One girl who says he raped her also followed him one time recently. The only females who are saying he did something bad is a girl from another state and her sister saying her little sister was hurt by him. Idk who to believe

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Just to help you out from personal experience. When I started seeing my ex husband, there were 3 girls telling me he was bad news. Cheated, emotionally abusive, manipulator. I didn't believe them because I thought they were jealous he chose me over them. Guess what?. I'm divorced now for those reasons.

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If more than one person is telling you he is bad news, it’s because they’re looking out for you. A girl said he raped her, run! Don’t do it. Don’t risk getting abused, lied to, raped and whatever else he may be capable of.

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I think they are probably telling the truth.

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I wouldn’t risk it

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I was with a guy who was emotionally abusive, manipulative, controlling and at times physically abusive. Would talk to other girls online and send them videos of himself. Would sign up to dating sites as single. Basically wore me down for 5 years and made me believe there wouldn’t ever be anyone else for me.
I finally broke the cycle and got out of the relationship.
He very quickly got into a new relationship with another girl. By now I’d moved on and thought it was none of my business; she was older, had her own house and business and an older child from a previous relationship. I thought she’s smart enough to see him for the real him if that’s what he’s like with her, and has her head screwed on well enough to make that decision. In a way I thought maybe he’s not like that with her, maybe part of the problem with us was that we were so incompatible and he wasn’t happy. Maybe with her he can be happy and treat her better. 
About a year ago (when they’d been together for 2 years) I get a message from her out of the blue asking if he had ever been violent with me. Immediately I felt awful. She was going through the same as I had. I had a long conversation with her about our relationship. She was able to relate on every level. 
She made it clear she had spoken to his other exes too, who all said similar things to me (something I never did after our relationship). I thought my words had given her the strength to move away from him and his toxic ass.
A couple of weeks go by and I don’t hear anything else so I look her up. Recent picture of them together is her profile picture, his name surrounded by love hearts on her page. It sickened me because I thought this is just how toxic and manipulative he is.
I think why I’m telling you this is because in my head, you are my exes new girlfriend. These girls have no reason to be contacting you, unless they are genuinely concerned about your well being. And from personal experience, whilst people can slightly modify behaviours, you can’t change people’s patterns of behaviours because ultimately they stem from their beliefs, and if your boyfriend treated all these girls badly, it’s not a behaviour that will go away. 
Obviously you do what you want to do, but I would believe what these girls are saying. I wish my exes new girl had listened to us. They now have a baby which breaks my heart even more.

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What???

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People can lie, people can change...
But I've been emotionally abused... do not risk it, these are red flags and if you continue a relationship with him, you will be able to see more.
I tend to give ppl the benefit of the doubt. So I dated an alcoholic, a highly manipulative emotional abuser, a narcissist who later molested me... 
All the signs were given for me to stay away from these ppl. 
No matter what you chose, please research emotional abuse and manipulation. 
My ex was so great at it, I knew about it and would STILL fall for his shit, over and over.
The first time your gut says he's manipulating you or his behavior doesn't respect you or your boundaries, GET AWAY FAST FOR YOUR OWN SAKE AND YOYR FAMILIES SAKE.

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i’ve had two different experiences i was in a relationship with someone and my parents told me to be careful. my best friend that knew him before i did told me that he cheated on his ex. i saw song red flags but i ignored. we’re no longer dating. on the other hand one of my friends was dating a guy that had a lot of crazy exes that would try to start drama and make up lies to get her to dump him. so it could go either way. but i wouldn’t risk it. sometimes you have to protect yourself.

What are the chances of every girl who's know or been with this guy says he's done terrible things is lying

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