OKAY LADIES AM I BEING CRAZY HERE OR??????

ooof okay so I feel as tho I need some sanity in my life since this whole situ has emerged 🤦🏽‍♀️

Basically my bf and this girl used to be really close, everyone thought they were friends with benefits or whatever, but to me he’s always maintained that they weren’t so I always believed him. Once he started talking to me she would tell him to stop talking to me and to ditch me and all this. His mom and her used to be really close too, so when I met his mom I would hear things about this girl and how she’s her “second favourite after me”

So since we’ve been dating she’s had her own boyfriend - who she’s cheated on FYI - and continued to try and overstep boundaries with my bf

fOr eXaMpLe like the time I was on holiday and she stayed over at my bfs house with her bf (who’s friends with my bf). Her bf was really drunk so when he was passed out she got into my bfs bed, asked if they could cuddle, slept in his shorts and offered to take my place at his cousins wedding the next morning.

can we just take a min.... is it just me or WHO THE ACTUAL F DOES THAT??!!!

so anyway I’ve been dealing with all this and my bf has always been really passive about the situation like he won’t say or react much (which is tough on me cus I just have to deal with it on my own)

Tonight I found out that they’ve kissed once without his consent because apparently when he turned around she kissed him on the lips so idek what to think but I am bothered he kept it from me. He knows I’m upset but now he’s just like “idk what I can do I’ll say something to her for you if you want” like I feel he should be more bothered but he’s just not he’s just sulking now he knows I know hes kept this from me.

ugh am I overreacting ladies? I have to say it’s not even the kiss thing,I think it’s just a culmination of things over months and months of her overstepping boundaries that has me exhausted at this point.