Boyfriend

So ladies question does your spouse get a attitude when you been with them a couple days without being bothered by anyone then all of a sudden you want a free day hang and chat with your friends or family it's like the entire mood switches up but the same thing you want to do with other people turns around and you do it with your boyfriend it's all smiles like this is some really aggravating stuff and you just don't even aurge because it be a all day thing going back and forth what do you do still go or just forget the whole thing including what he wants to do??