Low sex drive

Just need a little perspective or ideas.

I have lost my sex drive since my daughter. And she is almost 3 now. I dont take initiative to have sex. I dont even feel anything when i watch porn to masturbate or something. Its annoying and my husband has been understanding for far too long. I have put on weight as i dont care for myself and it doesn’t bother him either. I do look good in proper clothes. He is not cheating lol.

Focus:

I like when he becomes romantic and then i feel like having sex but thats the only time i have sex.

I dont know what to do. My hormones are okay.

Its not even about attraction. Coz i work and i dont feel sexual attraction to anybody.

I am not asexual. I enjoy sex when i do.

I m kinda stuck.