Maybe tmi sex question..

Kymberly • 🌈 born 7/25/2019

Hey y’all, quick question... how do you feel about sex?! It’s supposed to be “perfectly safe” during pregnancy, but after my miscarriage in July I am PETRIFIED of even having an orgasm of any kind in case it causes a miscarriage (because of uterine cramping... even though The intelligent side of my brain says it’s utter bs) DH is so kind and supportive and amazing all around. He hasn’t even mentioned it at all except for when I brought it up and told him the reason I haven’t initiated was that I was scared... I’m 6w3d now, and miscarried 6w1d last time. I thought it’d be easier and I’d get over things after I got past that timeframe but I’m still just as terrified. What is the general consensus on this? Anyone else abstain out of fear? Or just do it anyways?!